If you agree with three or more points on this list, it is likely that the plans of your man with you are limited to a bedroom
Either, like him, learn to get exclusively sexual pleasure from these relationships, or find a man who will not, at least, care about how you are doing.
- He always writes or calls after 21:00 and only on weekdays. Men who are interested in exclusively intimate entertainment, as a rule, act on a schedule: they make themselves known from Monday to Thursday, immediately after work or when the sun has already disappeared over the horizon. Yоu do not receive any news from him during the weekend, as this time is “reserved” for “Woman # 1” or for those partners whom, unlike yоu, he wants to invite on a date. If a window for you appears on his schedule only starting on Monday, then this relationship does not oblige him to anything.
- Any conversation with him ends with frank flirting. All his jokes or fleeting comments certainly come down to bed. “Are yоu in the supermarket now?” Hmmm … Where would you like to do this more: in the milk or bread department? ”
- You do not go on real dates. Dinner in a restaurant or just watching a movie together never enters into his plans for the evening, and yоu find yourself at home, in the car or in the hotel over and over again. If the initiative for a romantic meeting comes from you, most likely it will be “very busy.”
- Yоu do not have breakfast together. After sexual intercourse, he almost always returns to his home or, if events unfold in his bedroom, tries to “expel” you delicately from the house as soon as possible. “I’m going fishing with friends tomorrow at 5 in the morning.” “I need to meet mom at the airport.”
- He does not add you as a friend in any social network. He never liked your photos on Instagram, did not leave comments on Facebook and does not follow on Twitter. All your communication takes place exclusively by phone.
- He does not introduce yоu to his friends. And if you suddenly ran into one of your friends on the street, at best he will mutter something in the spirit of “my girlfriend / acquaintance” or confine himself to one name. The less yоu know about him, the easier it will be for him to disappear at any moment without giving a reason, like a phantom in The Phantom of the Opera. Often such ghost men do not consider it necessary to tell their partner their last name.
- He controls the time spent together. The clock flies next to him so easily and imperceptibly, but for some reason you have a feeling that somewhere there is a sensitive chronometer that reminds the man “time is up” or “enough for today.”
- He does not answer the phone in your presence. Even if the phone is literally torn. Do not look for excuses and do not write off this dubious gesture that he “wants to forget about everything around when you are around”.
- He does not attach any importance to your personal stories. No, no, this does not mean that he treats you badly. But at the same time, you clearly feel that he is not a bit interested in the minimum details of your life (“How was your working day today?”) Or feelings (“Are you still worried about your mother’s health?”). Moreover, he will certainly wrap even the most emotional revelation on your part in his favor. For example, will offer sex as a consolation.
- Yоu never forgot anything at his house. Before you leave, he, like a caring mother, will certainly check and remind: “Keys? Phone? Did you take a charge? ” If you have not left anything, you will not have an accidental weighty excuse to return to his house when he himself does not want it.
- He compliments only your appearance. He certainly marks yоur “excellent priest”, but not an excellent sense of humor, you always look “hot”, but never – “great”.
- After an orgasm, he tries to distance himself. Having just reached the highest pleasure, he certainly breaks down to go to the shower, go to smoke a cigarette or transfer to a computer.
- He avoids romance. The most personal and emotional thing that he has ever given you in a “fit of feelings” is a toy vibrator ring.
- From the doorway to the bedroom. Its a standard home route when you are nearby. Men who need only sex from a woman, the so-called “personal minimalists”, do not spend time chattering and streamline and simplify the entire process of relationships with a woman.
- He always tries to initiate sex during communication. The easiest way to distinguish
think, have you ever spent more than an hour together without any intimacy or a hint of it? If such a circumstance does not come to mind in any way – yоu do not need to reconsider about your affair.