Founder of Mount Zion Faith Ministries, Mike Bamiloye on Thursday said that many men of God were suffering in their marriages due to the stubbornness of their wives.
In a lengthy post on his Facebook page, Bamiloye said that some women would prefer that they were the heads of their matrimonial homes.
He urged single men to watch women who “love to have their way” closely and mark them down.
Mike Bamiloye wrote “Ephesians 5:22-24 NKJV [22] Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. [23] For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. [24] Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything.
“1 Peter 3:1 NKJV: Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands, that even if some do not obey the word, they, without a word, maybe won by the conduct of their wives,
“Colossians 3:18 NKJV: Wives, submit to your own husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.
“There are some portions of the Word of God that some women would wish were not in the Bible. If it were possible for them, they would have erased such a portion from the entire Scriptures. But unfortunately, the entire Word of God is infallible and is settled far away in Heaven.
“Therefore, such women chose to ignore the Scriptural instructions as though they were not existing at all.
“Some women would have been happier if the Bible had said the Wife is the head of the husband, because of the way they behave in their homes. Some women in the Lord are actually the husband in their homes. They must dictate the AFFAIRS of the home or there would be troubles. They call the shots. They do whatever they chose to do and their husbands must not object or there would be chaos. They are the husband in the home. They have reversed the instructions of the Word of God.
“So many men of God are suffering in silence because of the stubbornness of their wives. The ministry would have scattered if they had insisted on using their authority in the home. They would agree with a lot of the foolish ideas and suggestions their wives would bring up and follow them with patience to preserve their ministry and for the sake of the church and congregation. They counsel other people’s homes but theirs is in shamble in secret.
“There is a class of female Ministers who never stayed at home with their husband. They travel everywhere, being hosted in many hotels and suits all over as they minister about, eating the best of sumptuous meals provided by their hosts while their husbands stay alone at home manning the local church.
“They could be away from home on ministrations for two or three months “Preaching” the gospel all over the world while their husband languishes at home alone being fed by cousins, nephews or housemaids. And when the husband attempt to stop them from moving or attempt to reduce their frequent “mission” trips, they would say he is killing their visions and suppressing their callings.
“They would stand behind the pulpits and podiums introducing their sermons with praise for their husbands: “I bring you greetings from my husband, the owner of my head. The payer of my dowries without whom I would not be here today. He sent his warm greetings “, even while the man is suffering loneliness at home. Cold or hot the man is alone.
On many occasions when the man has ministrations on mission trips, the woman would not follow because she has her own trips too. So the man is left vulnerable at all times.
“BUT WHEN THERE IS A FALL AND IT IS MADE OPENED, FOR THERE ARE MANY SECRET FALLS, THE MAN WOULD BE AT FAULT. NOBODY BLAMES THE WOMAN! BUT GOD KNOWS THE SOURCE OF THE FALL. HE DOES NOT JUDGE AS MEN JUDGE.
