This article is for guys who find it difficult to keep strong and healthy relationship.
It just so unfortunate that a lot of guys are clueless when it comes to really figuring out what their women need in relationships.
Be aware of what really makes your woman happy ,the better you know how to make your woman happy, the happier you are going to be as well.
Here are a few tips that you could follow to keep your woman happy in the relationship.
1. TAKE HER OUT ON FUN DATES:
Dates are great, They are one of the rare opportunities in a relationship where you just get to block out all the noise and chatter of the adult world so that you can be alone with one another. It’s where you can really enjoy each other’s company. And so it’s only right that you actually try your best to make your dates fun and interesting. Don’t be content with taking her out for a boring dinner all the time. Mix things up. Put some creativity into it. Let her know that you still want to surprise her with your creativity.
2. MAKE IT A PRIORITY TO BE COMMUNICATIVE WITH HER;
Communication is always going to be important in any kind of relationship. You aren’t mind-readers. You’re not going to be able to figure out what your partner is thinking or saying if you don’t talk about it. So always be communicative. Don’t expect her to just know what you want and need from her. Be honest and open. Talk to her constantly and always keep her in the loop with regards to your life.
3. ALWAYS MAKE HER FEEL LIKE YOU’RE THERE FOR HER WHENEVER SHE NEEDS YOU.
Dependability is another very important aspect of any healthy relationship. She is always going to have to feel like you’re there for her. You must always be able to give her the safety and security that she needs from this relationship. You can’t make her happy if you are constantly forcing her to feel like you could walk out on her at any minute. Let her know that you really have her back and that you’re in it for as long as you need to be. You need to have your woman’s back in everything she does. I’m not saying you should help her cover up a crime, but there will be times that she’s going to be in desperate need of an ally, and you should not fail her.
4. GIVE HER AS MUCH ATTENTION AS SHE NEEDS.
Be attentive, learn to listen. She has her own personal needs and you have to be able to address them as well. It can’t always just be about what you want out of the relationship.
5. TRY YOUR BEST TO GET HER FRIENDS AND FAMILY TO LIKE YOU.
Her friends and her family are the most important people in her life. And since you’re also going to be an important person to her, it only makes sense that you make an effort to integrate yourself in her already existent social life. You have to make an effort to try to get her friends and family to like you. She will be very happy with whatever effort you try to put forth here.
6. DON’T BE WITHHOLDING WITH YOUR EXPRESSIONS OF LOVE.
Stop playing your games. Stop playing hard to get. You’re already in a relationship together. There’s no point in trying to feign indifference and disinterest anymore. If you love her, and if you want her to love you in return, then let her know. Be expressive with your emotions. Don’t withhold them. Shower her with lots of love and affection and she is bound to do the same for you as well.
7. MEET HER s3xUAL NEEDS AND DESIRES AS WELL.
s3x is an often overlooked aspect of relationships. A lot of couples think that it’s just something that they have to get over with every now and then. But s3x is so much more than that. It’s a physical manifestation of the emotional bond and connection between two people. It’s the ultimate show of trust and humility between two physical forces. And all she really wants from you is to be generous. Give as much as you’re willing to get in the bedroom.
8. TRUST AND RESPECT HER.Don’t demean and belittle her. Don’t treat her like a child. Put her on equal footing with you. Respect her as a mature individual who is in a mature relationship with you.
9. APOLOGIZE WHENEVER YOU SCREW UP.
Don’t let your pride get in the way of her happiness. There are so many relationships all over the world that crumble because of oversized egos. Learn to just swallow your pride and own up to whatever mistakes or shortcomings you might have in the relationship. Apologize whenever you wrong her. It might not be easy to earn her forgiveness. But it’s definitely a good step to getting her to be happy with you again.
10. STAY LOYAL TO HER.
This is something that should be plainly obvious. You can’t expect your girl to be happy if you are unfaithful to her. Be committed to her and to her alone. Don’t make her feel like she’s a mere option to you. Always make her feel like a true priority.
11. GO EASY ON HER NAGGING
This notion that it’s only women who nag is wrong. I have a friend whose fiancee can nag for hours non- stop. He can whine and whine that she will just take her things and leave the house. There are many women whose husbands are professional nags. And this is not healthy for your relationship. Stop nagging. Talk to your woman when issues come up, don’t nag. You might push her away into the arms of another man.
12.HUG HER LIKE NEVER BEFORE.
Girls like it when their man hugs them. It’s because hugging makes a girl feel secure, warm and comfortable. Hug her as a support when she is sad, happy or when you want to let her know that she is yours. Hug her for no reason at all!
13. RESPECT HER
When a girl has decided to be in a relationship with you, it doesn’t mean that you can do everything you like to her. If she says no, respect her. She must have reasons for saying “no”.
14. GIVE HER MONEY WHEN NECESSARY
Women love money , don’t be deceived by their first impression , most women tend to pretend at first in a relationship because guys judge women by their demands. For a relationship to be healthy the man must be ready to take care of most of the ladies expenses. Women are very demanding, but some do not ask their man for money. So for you to have a healthy relationship give her money without her asking.
15. BE RESPONSIBLE
A man who can be responsible for everything he does will make his girl proud of him. Girls love it when their man can be responsible because that means he will try hard to make his girl happy.
Who is a responsible man ?
A man who live up to his words.
A man who regard “cowardice” has not an option.
A man who respect and don’t cheat on his woman
A man who accomodate other people regardless of discomfort.
A man who provide for his family,both immediate and extended family and help others no matter how small or big he is financially.
With these tips i’m sure you’ll have a healthy and long lasting relationship