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YOU HAVE DIFFERENCES. BUT YOU REALLY LIKE THEM
They say that “opposites attract”, and often this is actually so. But over time, those vivid traits that so pleasantly surprised on first dates can begin to annoy. For example, you are serious, and he is a romantic dreamer; he knows how to cook, but you are … well, or vice versa. Will these differences look just as attractive in 5-10-15 years? Make sure that you don’t have to make an effort to admit: we are different, but that’s exactly what is valuable, because we can complement each other perfectly.
NEXT TO HIM YOU BECOME BETTER
In the eyes of a loved one, we see ourselves as in a mirror. And, more importantly, this reflection delights us: well, I didn’t think that I could be like that! “Your” man is the one next to whom you not only like you, but every day happily move forward – towards your dreams, to the image of “I’m the best.”
IT’S EASY FOR YOU TO BE YOURSELF BESIDE HIM
Fresh manicure, perfect make-up and hairstyle – a traditional must have of a bouquet of sweets during the relationship. Are you able to admit that sometimes you can be tired, sleepy, just out of sorts? If neither you nor him are embarrassed, your couple is on the right track.
YOU TRUST HIM FOR EVERYTHING
Do I need to tell each other “absolutely everything”? More likely no than yes – simply because this is not necessary. Each of us has a small secret corner in our hearts, a personal “secret garden”, and there is nothing shameful if you do not grow poisonous thorns in it. But when something excites you, makes you happy, upsets or scares, “your” man will be the first person you want to discuss with.
YOU ARE MORE THAN A FRIEND
Yes, yes, quite usually, not on March 8, February 14 and 23, but every day. To meet after work, to make coffee, to sleep longer on Saturday … You don’t feel that you alone have to make efforts to please him: to give you simple and gentle signs of attention is no less pleasant for him than you to receive them.
YOU ARE NOT JUST LOVED, BUT ALSO THE COMMUNITIES
You laugh together, fool around, go to bars, go to the cinema, you can go skiing or score for all weekends and spend on the couch with the show and pizza. In other words, you have a great time together – as your best buddies. Imagine if (suddenly) you parted, not just a man, but also a beloved friend would disappear from your life … No, you will not even agree to imagine it.
YOU HAVE GENERAL PLANS FOR THE FUTURE
You feel good together now – and then it will be even better! Because you plant a tree together, build a house, drop everything, earn a million and leave for a hut on the ocean – the details are not particularly important, the main thing is to motivate and inspire both of you. If even a small startup needs a business plan, what can we say when it comes to the success of a whole life together.
YOU ENJOY SUCCESS OF YOUR FRIEND
Oddly enough, for many couples the “weak link” is not difficult times, but rather the career or financial achievements of one of the partners. Have you defended your second or third diploma, received a high position or won a major contract? “Your” man will sincerely rejoice, be proud of you and your victory. Including (this is important) and in conversations with friends and acquaintances.
YOU ARE NORMAL WITH HIS FRIENDS AND RELATIVES
Emphasis on the word “normal.” That is, you do not have to adore each other, but you can maintain comfortable relationships that do not violate the boundaries of your couple. In any case, all these people have been and remain part of your man’s life, and it will be better if this suits you perfectly.
YOU HAVE GENERAL VIEWS ON CHILD EDUCATION
Do you want him to have them all? When, how much, whether it is important, etc. Perhaps now neither you nor he think about it at all, but sooner or later these issues will be discussed. And come to a consensus.
