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Top 20 Common Reason Couples Divorce in Nigeria

Enudi Golden by Enudi Golden
January 11, 2024
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Top 20 Common Reason Couples Divorce in Nigeria

Discover the Top 20 Common Reason Couples Divorce in Nigeria . This article delves into the common issues and challenges that lead to marital breakdowns in the country.

Introduction

Marriage is considered a sacred and cherished union in Nigeria, just as it is in many other parts of the world. However, the rate of divorce in Nigeria has been steadily increasing over the years, highlighting the complex issues and challenges that couples face in their relationships. In this article, we will explore the Top 20 Common Reason Couples Divorce in Nigeria.

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  1. Lack of Preparation

One of the primary reasons for divorce in Nigeria is a lack of proper preparation for marriage. Many young people rush into marriage without adequate emotional, psychological, and intellectual readiness. This impulsive decision can lead to marital issues and eventual divorce.

  1. Lack of Courtship

Courtship is an essential phase in getting to know a potential life partner. Lack of sufficient courtship can result in couples knowing too little about each other, leading to mismatched expectations and ultimately divorce.

  1. Lack of Compatibility

Physical attraction should not be mistaken for compatibility. Couples who discover incompatibility after marriage often find it challenging to sustain their relationship, ultimately leading to divorce.

  1. Lack of Trust

Distrust between partners is a destructive force that can erode the foundation of a marriage. When trust is broken, couples may opt for divorce as a way to escape the pain.

  1. Lack of Communication

Open and honest communication is the cornerstone of a healthy marriage. Couples who fail to communicate effectively can experience emotional distance, which may lead to divorce.

  1. Mismatch of Ages

Age differences between partners can become a significant issue in a marriage. When there’s a substantial age gap, different life stages and expectations can create tensions leading to divorce.

  1. Lack of Intimacy

Intimacy is crucial for maintaining a vibrant and fulfilling marriage. The absence of intimacy, often seen in working-class and long-distance relationships, can contribute to marital dissatisfaction and divorce.

  1. Infertility

Couples in Nigeria often face immense pressure to have children. When infertility issues arise, blame can be placed on one spouse, leading to emotional strain and potential divorce.

  1. Infidelity

Infidelity is a major reason for divorce in Nigeria. The betrayal, anger, and emotional pain caused by infidelity can be challenging to overcome, often ending in divorce.

  1. High Expectations

Comparing one’s spouse to others, whether financially or otherwise, can create unrealistic expectations and discontentment within the marriage, eventually leading to divorce.

  1. Third-Party Interference

While seeking help from third parties to resolve marital issues is common, it can lead to divorce when the involvement of outsiders exacerbates the situation.

  1. Selfishness

Selfishness in a marriage can result in one partner prioritizing their interests over the other’s, leading to feelings of being unloved and unwanted and, eventually, divorce.

  1. Disrespect

Mutual respect is crucial for a successful marriage. Disrespect can lead to frustration, anger, and impatience, which may ultimately culminate in divorce.

  1. Pride and Ego

Pride and ego can create conflicts within a marriage, particularly in situations where income disparities challenge traditional gender roles and expectations.

  1. Domestic Violence

Domestic violence is a severe issue in Nigerian marriages. When one spouse abuses the other, particularly in cases of anger management problems, divorce may be seen as the only escape.

  1. Unforgiveness

Refusing to forgive one’s spouse can result in prolonged grief, bitterness, and, eventually, hatred, leading to the decision to divorce.

  1. Absence of Love

Love is the foundation of any successful marriage. Without love, the marriage lacks essential elements like communication, compromise, forgiveness, happiness, oneness, tolerance, trust, and understanding, often culminating in divorce.

  1. Lack of Openness

Honesty and openness are crucial in any relationship. When spouses hide significant aspects of themselves or their history, the truth’s revelation can result in divorce.

  1. Intellectual Mismatch

Intellectual mismatch, where partners have significantly different levels of intellect, can cause misunderstandings and communication challenges, leading to marital discord and potential divorce.

  1. Leading Separate Lives

Couples who lead separate lives, spending little time together, risk emotional disconnection and a lack of shared goals. Such disconnection often leads to divorce as the emotional bond weakens.

Conclusion

The rising divorce rate in Nigeria reflects the myriad challenges couples face in their relationships. While marriage is a sacred institution, it is not without its difficulties. Understanding and addressing these top 20 reasons for divorce in Nigeria can help individuals navigate the complexities of married life and, hopefully, reduce the prevalence of divorces in the country.

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